Talk About It
It’s common for new mothers to feel a little low after the birth, especially if it was a difficult one, but this is nothing to be ashamed of. Just imagine your hormones running around like children on e numbers, they’ve got no idea what their doing, and this is how your hormones react to the shock of birth and now to having to produce food for your baby. It’s going to take time for your body to transition, so do not start to worry that you’re doing it all wrong. Instead talk to other new mums because the likelihood is they’ll being feeling the same way too. As the old saying goes, a problem shared is a problem halved, and getting your feelings and frustrations off your chest is much healthier than bottling them all up.Ask for Help
As much as you want to act like super mum, if you’re lucky enough to have a partner there for you get them to help you out. It’s their baby too, and they’re probably feeling a little useless after the birth anyway, so take advantage of the extra pair of hands to ease your daily tasks. If they can put the baby to bed whilst you have a nice long relaxing bath, or even watching them whilst you go for dinner with friends to just feel like you again rather than ‘mum’. Even the smallest tasks can go along way when you’ve got a new person to be responsible, but don’t forget that you’re not in it alone.Get Out
For the first few weeks after the birth you’re probably feeling completely exhausted, but when you’ve stopped taking mid-afternoon naps, now’s the time to start getting out of the house and being more social. This is not only good to get some gentle exercise, but it’s also a chance to get back your freedom, which can be especially important for your mental well being. Meeting friends at the park for a walk, or joining mother and baby groups are all great for you and there are now many facilities across the UK that have mum and baby classes such as baby yoga or baby swimming. Perfect for the both of you to bond and get some much need physical movement!Have Some TLC
Don’t forget that if you’re feeling great, the chances are you’re going to have more energy and positivity to look after you baby in the best way possible. Taking time out of being a mum can make you feel guilt ridden, but it’s important for you to look after yourself, be that mentally or finding ways to ease physical discomfort you may be having, so that you’re feeling fit and strong and ready to face each day. Getting a massage will not only give you some much needed me time, but can also massively benefit your body in recovery. During pregnancy and labor, you produce relxain and oxytocin, two hormones which allow for an easier delivery. Unfortunately the side effects include loss of support and stability, leading to many new mothers experiencing back pain for months after the arrival. A specified labor recovery massage can be an effective treatment in preventing further back pain, especially when you’re going to be carrying around your new baby.Mummy B xoxox
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